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sian kisses

Joined: 05 Jul 2008 Posts: 13 Location: brighton
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 9:34 pm Post subject: flats... |
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i have a lovely boyfriend only problem is i love heels but he is only 3 inches taller than me and since we met 2 years ago, i've just worn flats.
i feel really self concious if i wear heels with him because it makes me the same height or taller. is this weird am i mad.
please help...
kiss kiss x _________________ "'im the kind of girl that likes picked flowers, found gifts and passionate kisses...'" |
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Herr Geist Moderator

Joined: 10 May 2007 Posts: 3567 Location: Tampa, FL U.S.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 12:09 am Post subject: |
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I am not a tall person. I am only 5'7" which makes me somewhat short for a guy. I have never been bothered by a girl being taller than me whether she's wearing heels or not. In fact, I've been with girls ranging from 4'11" all the way up to 6'1" in bare feet. Three of my girls were 5'9" with no heels. In fact, I seem to attract a lot of taller girls. I have no idea why.
I'm not sure why being taller than him while you're wearing heels should bother you, but if he's secure with his height, you're not gonna bother him by wearing heels and looking good next to him. Not at all.
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Miss Vincent
Joined: 12 Dec 2007 Posts: 76 Location: Brighton
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:27 pm Post subject: |
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My boyfriend is only an inch taller than me, but I still wear heels. I've never found it a problem, and neither has he. I say just go for it, if you want to wear heels, do! I'm sure he won't mind at all, and if you still feel a bit awkward, just let him know and I'm sure he'll help to boost you confidence about it. Or, you could start off carrying a spare pair of shoes with you, and if you feel a bit weird you can always change.
Plus, you say he's only seen you in flats....well, as soon as you pop those killer heels on your legs are gonna look so fabulous he won't care how tall you are! |
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sian kisses

Joined: 05 Jul 2008 Posts: 13 Location: brighton
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 8:08 pm Post subject: thankies... |
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i am so going to purchase some killer heels and wowser him... thankyou so much.... yippee
 _________________ "'im the kind of girl that likes picked flowers, found gifts and passionate kisses...'" |
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DarklyDelicious Millicent

Joined: 03 Mar 2007 Posts: 481
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 9:26 pm Post subject: |
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Hi
Same here...I'm nearly 5'9" and still love heels, my boyfriend is about 5'11" but i still like high heels..and so does he!!!
xxx go for it xx _________________ "She Has Bite Marks On Her Tongue From All The Things She Never Said........" |
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syntheticdarkness

Joined: 18 Mar 2007 Posts: 493 Location: How helpless we are, like netted birds when we are caught by desire...
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Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 1:23 am Post subject: |
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I am 5ft 9 and wear heels too Its fine to be taller than your bloke!!
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sian kisses

Joined: 05 Jul 2008 Posts: 13 Location: brighton
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Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:11 pm Post subject: |
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i bought shoes and sexy new hair.....yipppeee.... thankyou everyone. _________________ "'im the kind of girl that likes picked flowers, found gifts and passionate kisses...'" |
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