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Miss Baby Bones · Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 11:26 am Post subject:

i wish it was healthier to have kids later in life... if i could prolong myself id happily have kids in my 40s or 50s!!

its not a bad thing to NOT want kids.

theres too many humans in the world anyway!

after i pop mine out i would very much like to adopt and/or foster, hoping i can afford it too.

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Violet Van Tassel · Joined: 15 Aug 2007 Posts: 131

This is always a tricky subject. I'm in my early 30s, no kids, don't think I want any. I just want kittens! But I do know that life has a habit of never turning out the way you expect. No one knows what'll happen in the future. Thank god or life would just be boring!

My mum wants grand kids and nags me constantly, including bringing up the subject the very first time she met my man! Thanks mum Confused

DarklyDelicious Millicent · Joined: 03 Mar 2007 Posts: 528

NO NO NO...kids just NO..not at any age..you'll spend the rest of your life BROKE...while all your mates are zipping off round the world...have WORRY LINES and WRINKLES....and look 50 at 25.....they will NEVER lave home...your house will ALWYAS be a mess.....there will always be some strange teenager lurking wrapped in a quilt about...having not been able to foind their way home..... Shocked

They will (BOY or GIRL) always wanna borrow your..clothes..make up (the most expensive might i add) use it all up..borrow your brand new gorgoeus shoes you just bought.....

Run up huge phone bills...use all your texts up on your phone...play loud music all night....borrow your prized camera to take vidoes and photos of fetish stuff..having borrowed your s and m stuff Embarassed

and then post it on U TUBE!!!

Need i say more YES..you become a taxi at all hours of the day and night....going out in your pj's picking them up from all night parties...

BUT guess what......shes my daughter and shes gorgeous and all her mates think im the coolest...BUT

I never wanted or intended to have kids..i cant stand them... Laughing

But its nearly over for me.....I ge to go on holiday and she gets to stay at home now!! lol

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Minnie the Minxtress · Joined: 07 Feb 2007 Posts: 766 Location: Kent

He he... Millicent I sooooo know the feeling. got in from college this afternoon and here's the scenario...

Littlest daughter in living room, watching TV and playing Nintendo DS all at once at a very loud volume...

Middle daughter in bedroom, playing electric guitar with her boyfriend sitting on the end of the bed, nodding to himself and strumming imaginary guitar...

Eldest daughter in kitchen, (house smells of toast), with one girl sitting opposite ploughing through a plate of toast with lashings of chocolate spread and beside her, a very beautiful young man with long curly hair and an elaborate nose piercing.. he politely says "Hi I'm Michael" and they then continue twittering about a photo session they've just done up in the woods near our house for eldest daughters A level photography.. subject - naked skin.. apparently one of them whipped their top off for the pics... (they're all photography students so spend hours modelling for each other)...

Tomorrow is the teachers strike... so dinner time was full of 'what are we doing tomorrow mum'?

My answer.. 'Nuffin you brats.. Mama's off to college to do dreamweaver, so clean your rooms'.

Ahhh college.. a welcome break from the madness. Very Happy

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DarklyDelicious Millicent · Joined: 03 Mar 2007 Posts: 528

Yes that sounds just about right....xx

what is it with photoshoots and skin...hmmm lol I do enough if them!! Embarassed

Well my experience with daughter and teenage mates..they all love each other so much...more than their own families i think!xx

Mines only 15 but going on 30...got soooo cross a few weeks ago when me and boyfriend got a "bit" tipsy when were out..she was sooooo embrassed..damn cheek...

Well never had any problems with mine..apart from the usual thing get up..youre late..stres thing...lol

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EllaEmerald · Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Posts: 2026 Location: BRIGHTON

This is such a huge issue these days. I was told I was too young to get married (at 22) and am now getting told that time is running out for me to have kids! (25, wow, so over the hill, I can feel my ovaries shrivelling up)
The right time is so different for different people.
The thought of having kids terrifies me right now but they are definitely part of my 'plan'.
Everyone thought that by getting married I was going to start popping out sprogs left, right and centre.
And whats with all the people who have kids first and save the 'committment' of marriage for after?! I have no problem with people having kids before marriage or not getting married but it just freaks me out when they think the bit of paper and not bringing new life into the world is the bigger deal. You can walk away from a marriage or relationship and it can be a good decision, you should never walk away from your kids.
People take the decision too lightly all too often.

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