KatyKamikaze
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this shouldnt bother me at allbut a guy i was sorta seeing before i met my fiance is now going out with a burlesque performer who my friends know and ive vaguely met, i dunno why but it bugs me.. possibly because he was quite charming and possibly because hes an arsehole and no one seems to have warned her. hmm
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Herr Geist
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It should bug you. That means you have a conscience. Unfortunately, warning people rarely works and all it really does is make you look like a judgmental or bitter asshole. Even after the guy does something stupid to the people you warned, they still won't look favorably on you.
Best idea? Let 'em learn their own lesson and don't say a word. Just the fact that you're no longer with that guy should tip them off to the fact that he's a dick.
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Diva Hollywood
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People never listen when they are in the first throws of romance. If you say anything you will come over wrong HG is right she will figure it out for herself.
Diva x
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Miss Baby Bones
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| Herr Geist wrote: | | ... and all it really does is make you look like a judgmental or bitter asshole. |
thats how i come across alot apparently.
tee hee!!
xxx
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Diva Hollywood
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tee hee
Yip I have no tact I get it from my mum or the lack of it. I think I am getting better and then bang I put my foot in it again.
Diva x
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Miss Baby Bones
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'shit always floats to the surface'
so be patient, if no-one listens to you, the truth will out.
thats the satisfaction i get where no-one believes me about horrid people
xxx
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ameliesoleil
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tee hee, diva and i were talking the other day about how i keep my mouth running and can't help telling people exactly what i think... doesn't often go down well trust me 
if it's who i think it is, don't worry she'll notice soon enough haha!!
xx
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KatyKamikaze
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you think you know who it is? *gasp*
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ameliesoleil
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okay i might not but is there a yellow and black theme to this at all??
dats all i'm saying i could be completly wrong
xx
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Herr Geist
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Oh my god! It's the bumblebee girl from that damn Blind Melon video?
HOW TERRIBLE!
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KatyKamikaze
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ah i see how you could think that but no no no.. i've never been with him!! hehe its someone else less in the limelight and yorkshire based. As far as i know hes treating her ok by all accounts but i know what he can be like.. charming and sly but full of shit humph.. i should forget about it i have my own business to be gettin on with lol
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ameliesoleil
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tee hee thats why i was relucatant to say cos i wasn't sure about you & him... i'm a burly gossip whore anyone can tell you
xx
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KatyKamikaze
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no no the certain gentleman you thought is very sweet as a friend and is treating his lady well.. i wudnt ever dream of goin ther tho haha.
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CrimbleFairy
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About 5 years after me and one of my ex's split up he added me on facebook, we're still on good terms but when he got a girlfriend I was like you mean you're not still madly in love with me?!!??! How can this be!?!?! Even though I had my own fella but that's allowed of course..... 
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KatyKamikaze
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so its alright to feel a teeny bit peeved? we werent serious.. but he WAS fairly good in bed. Well.. i have someone better now tho hahahaha
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