Heather Sweet
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Sex, Cheesecake, and Curfiews,Dear Auntie Bettie
I've been seeing a lovely genuine bloke recently.
And weve bee getting to know eachother biblicly.
But it seems like that's all it is.
I haven't met any of his friends or family yet and he hasn't mine.
We have difficulty seeing eachother with transport and our weekends are taken up with the persuit of the premier legue and the casino-
and the persuit of pasties and curlers.
Is it moraly / ethicaly right to keep seeing this guy when the relationship isn't progressing just because he's great at foreplay and has very few sexual hang ups ?
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Herr Geist
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If you're okay with it only being sexual and you have the emotional capacity to deal with it, then there is nothing wrong with it at all. Don't cloud it with morality and all that. You have to focus on what makes you happy. Morals are pretty subjective as it is.
But if it makes you uneasy for whatever reason, then you shouldn't stay in that situation. Period. If it makes you happy and nothing about it bothers you, then there isn't really anything to debate.
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Heather Sweet
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Thanks honey x
Just weighing up .
x Snow whites going drifting x
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Ruby Rose
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I'm with HG on this one.
xxx
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Diva Hollywood
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Maybe you need to think of him as a great shag and no more and keep your eyes open for someone who will give you all the things you want. It might work to your advantage if you are getting it good it shows on your face and makes you even more attractive so it probably will not take you long to find another one or two. You are to good a catch to waste on someone that does not appreciate you honey
Love and big hugs
Diva xxx
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Fleur du Mal
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Exactly. You're young and not every relationship has to be the love of your life. If you like him and he likes you and you're having fun and no-one's getting hurt, where's the problem? Take it for what it is and enjoy it - if it develops, great, if it doesn't, is it the end of the world?
And stay out of the casinos, take it from me they are not good places!
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Miss Baby Bones
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yes, if you have fun and so does he then theres no problem 
you can still look around, you never know whats behind the next corner ;p
xxx
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EllaEmerald
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Shag him, alot.
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Honeylulu
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I agree on all the points above! Plus if you get lots of good sex you oooze sex, and you're gonna have lots of men flying around you! 
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EllaEmerald
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How come the poll is 50/50 and everyone here agrees to have the shag?! Come on all you Catholics, out the closet!
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Herr Geist
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Fleur du Mal
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| EllaEmerald wrote: | | Come on all you Catholics, out the closet! |
*Hand up*
Well I went to Catholic school that counts ...
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Herr Geist
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do you still have the uniform?
yes, it's a predictable response... but I'm a guy
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Lillian Demure
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seriously???
most schools in ireland are catholic by default. Our uniform was hideous.. Radioactive red jumper and navy skirt.. uck.. terrible..
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Fleur du Mal
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| Herrgeist wrote: | do you still have the uniform?
yes, it's a predictable response... but I'm a guy |
Do you know how many times I've been asked that question? I'll just give you my standard response:
I still have A uniform ... ^_^
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Herr Geist
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hahahaha
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Broomy
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Is this what you are looking for HG?
And don't forget the one that all good catholic girls do:
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Herr Geist
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I'll take the redhead!
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Miss Baby Bones
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god look at the state of them...
bloody eat something girls!
and stop being orange!
xxx
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EllaEmerald
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The blonde one at the end looks vile.
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