A problem with other ladies

smashingsadie · A problem with other ladies

Dear Auntie Bettie,

I think perhaps ladies is too strong a word to describe these horrid people. Nick's housemates have been bullying us since he moved in and now it is all getting worse. I will use pseudonyms to explain what is happening.

Miss PITA whines all the time about anything and everything, whether it be the truth or not. Miss LM has a habit of steaming and screaming about something that she knows nothing about.

Miss LM texted Nick yesterday calling him a liar and brought up a whole load of "issues" which are complete BS. This includes me being a bitch for saying Miss PITA is a bully (which I only said to my very best friend) and refusing to stay round because of her. I don't stay round much at all because the landlord suggested no more than twice a week to minimise friction. I stuck to this religiously but they have found a way of making me look bad for it!

Miss LM also claims that Miss PITA cannot possibly be a bully because she never speaks to me. Obviously slamming doors in my face, stamping around the house when I'm there, bitching as loud as she can outside Nicks door, turning off hot water/internet when she knows we are using it, making up a whole bunch of lies to tell the landlord and turning her music up rediculously loud when she tells us playing a palm muted un-amped electric guitar (thats very quiet btw) is too loud is not bullying. Thats normal behaviour isn't it? *rolls eyes*

Lies to the landlord include me living there 24/7 and abusing electricity/water/heating bringing up their bills (which are cheaper than anyone elses we've come across). Lets not forget us being "noisy" with music and tv at all hours, and taking up "too much room" in the fridge/freezer. We use half a shelf in the fridge and one drawer out of the 5 drawers in each of the two freezers.

After this, we met with the landlord and discussed only staying over twice a week etc. She wrote a polite letter saying everyone needs to start being nicer to each other, can only have people stay twice a week and to stop moaning about bills because they are very low (she even gave examples). I try and pretend like I'm not there - only leaving Nicks room to pee or leave the house. Nick is doing almost the same thing too now.

These girls chucked my vegetarian food out the other day saying its very "offensive". I have an allergy to meat. They also broke all our eggs andput them back in the fridge so I had no food to eat in the house. They shouldn't have been in Nicks freezer draw etc really!

I can't win - if I stay over when I like I get bitched at, if I barely stay over I get bitched at. They would obviously like to see me violently ill or starve by taking away my food. Is it really their business when I decide to see my fiancee?? I know this is all silly - I am 20, and don't have to go to Nicks at all if I really didn't want to....

Nick moves out on 24th June, which isn't too far away. Its got to a rediculous state now for us though and I am very sad a lot of the time, and always timid and scared when I go to Nicks, particularly if he pops out for a pint of milk and leaves me in the house by myself.

I am always so polite to these girls, and say hello and ask how they are even though I know about all the things they say and do. How do I cope with this bullying???

Love and kisses,

Miss Sadie Sparkle xxx

PS - sorry this is so long winded, I needed to get it all out of my system.

PPS - Miss PITA = pain in the ass, Miss LM = little madame.

ClaudiaAtlantis

Thats disgusting behaviour! Are they jealous of you?

Pieman

I really wish I had some suggestions to help you out Sadie but this seems like one of those situations where you probably need to focus on the light at the end of tunnel, the 24th June is only just over a month away.

People like this make me feel sick that they actually think they can get away with doing such horrid things, perhaps Claudia is correct, jealousy can be a powerful motivator to be as unpleasant towards somebody.

I wish I could have been more help,

Simon

EllaEmerald

Vegetarian food OFFENSIVE!! People like that really really piss me off! I'm a veggie myself but never preach to anyone else or try and convert anyone and people often try and start rows with me about being veggie. WHY? Its a personal choice that has nothing to do with anyone else. Chucking out your food is disgusting behaviour. They sound like a couple of petty, pathetic bitches who deserve a smack in the chops.
It sounds like you have been perfectly civil, as long as your polite and have been sticking to the 2 night rule what possible reason could they have to do this to you?!
Don't get ground down by this bullying, you have done nothing for them to be treating you this way.
I had disastrous housemates who ripped up my engagement cards, stole my clothes and jewellery and lied and stirred for 6 months, it was hell. (I peed in their shampoo when they ruined my 21st bday by inviting their friends round and drinking all my alcohol then complaining I hadn't provided enough!!)
All you can do is stick it out, although personally I would be too tempted to say, f*ck off you half witted whinging w*nk rag.

Auntie Bettie

My Dearest Miss Sadie,

My first reaction to these young ladies (and I too use this term loosely) is that it sounds like a personal problem to me. Do these specimens of joy have boyfriends of their own, social lives and a rich and colourful circle of friends. You may want to suggest a different treatment for their acne and halitosis.

This behaviour is normally the reserve of small children who's cerebral development hasn't yet reached it full and rational potential of their adult counterparts, however in some cases this cerebral development seems a little stunted in some, which is indeed what I think we have in hand here.

As you’re fiancé (again, you see this word is only bound to upset these little fustilugs) is leaving and given the evidence I'm afraid that there is only one way to deal with these somewhat ungraceful guttersnipes.

1.
Take their delightful and perfect eggs from the refrigerator and with a fine needle pierce the shell, keeping pushing in until you are sure you have pierced to yolk then shake vigorously, replace said eggs.

2.
Lace their milk with laxatives.

3.
Upon leaving place a fillet of mackerel in a freezer bag and pierce several times, place said bag down the back of the sofa or in a hard to find/reach area.

You will find that these harmless but effective remedies will leave both you and your partner in a state of high euphoria for many years to come. I once used the toothbrush of an old friend to clean her toilet bowl rather well with, I hear you all cry out with disgust at this dear readers but she had in fact slept with my Fiancé, this was the only thing that helped me cope with the unbearable gut wrenching betrayal.

You could also of course use this as a method to coerce your betrothed into your own boudoir and simply visit his house to do both yours and his laundry, but I for one would find the slow covert torture far more fun to witness.

I do hope that you take my advice seriously my dear, otherwise this will bother you for quite some time to come, and revenge is a dish best served in the shape of off eggs.

Fondest love,

Auntie Bettie

P.S. You may find that your allergy to meat is due to the fact that your body is not producing the correct pancreatic enzymes, your Doctor can prescribe you pancreazymin which should deal with this.

smashingsadie

Thank you girls for your support and cheering me up ladies *cuddles8

Yesterday someone spread beef dripping on my food, which made me ill all night. I was sick and had awful stomach cramps. It was terrible. And although my co-workers are wonderful I felt it would be unfair to take the day off because we are understaffed this week.

How is it fair that I have had to suffer very physically as part of their cruel "joke"???

When I was being sick it hurt so much I was crying in pain. The girls were in the room next over giggling and doing impressions. When I was crying out and sobbing I could hear one saying "Oh God, she's such a f*****g drama queen. Its only a f*****g joke, silly bitch".

This was too much for me, so I spoke to my dad who is a policeman. I am going to have them charged with assault, and I really hope something comes of it.

xxx

Gehenna

If you are allergic to meat then the 'joke' could possibly be considered assault in the eyes of the law. Had you been hospitallised with a serious reaction to the deliberate poisoning then it could have been considered as attempted murder by the local constabulary. A similar 'joke' happened many years ago and the 'prankster' was charged.

Putting it bluntly, you are stuck with a bunch of prize bitches so long as your fellow house shares with them. I suggest he gets out asap it at all possible. My other suggestion is illegal in most countries, but people like this deserve it.

Regards

The Satanic Gentleman (sic)

Edit: bloody typical, I don't read the above posts and repeat what you just saiud about charging with assualt. DOH!!!

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Minnie the Minxtress

YAY.. sounds good Miss Boo. I shall have to dig out my bullet-firing pasties which should put the little turds in order. Twisted Evil

lushem

do you want me to send the boys round??

bit-riches

Selena Lix

what truely horrible slags. poor you its not nice being bullied- i do love auntie bettys toilet cleaning with toothbrush idea, and pissing in shampoo.

that or you could smear vege pate into their chicken..... Laughing

Ruby Rose

All I have to say is that it's tome for the law to be involved, these are deeply unpleasant specimins of human life.

My heart goes out to you sweetheart, and as Gehenna states the only things I could suggest now are not legal.

My thoughts are with you.

Ruby
x

Ginger Snaps

I know I am almost a year late, but, did you get the law involved and what happened?!

To Be Continued...