Burlesque Womens Institute

Acacia Sweet · Joined: 11 Apr 2008 Posts: 400 Location: Leeds

All of a sudden I can't turn around without developing new insecurities. It's driving me nuts. Body parts I have previously beeen perfectly happy with, I suddenly am panicking about and thinking how ugly they are. What in hell has happened to my brain. Jai is sick of me repeatedly demanding, in increasingly demented tones, if he thinks my boobs look saggy and I think much more of this and he'll run screaming for the hills. My insecurities are now on a par with my mothers constant bemoaning of her weight/ the size of her calf muscles/ how old and wrinkly she thinks she looks.

Somebody please tell me in a couple of months I'll get over it and stop stressing.

And does anyone think my boobs have started to droop?

Madame Mechante · Joined: 19 Feb 2008 Posts: 139

Don't worry - this is something that I think we all go through occasionally.

I always used to ask Pete (hubby) everytime I went anywhere if I looked okay - usually pin-pointing various bits of my anatomy (wobbly bits, big boobs etc) as I did so. One day he got fed up and told me that I always look okay when I go out and that if I did look awful he'd be the first person to tell me so.

...............it still hasn't stopped me from asking him though Laughing

Acacia Sweet · Joined: 11 Apr 2008 Posts: 400 Location: Leeds

I think I've mostly gotten over my mini freak-out. I have made Jai swear he'll never let me turn into my mother though. Also, the reason my boobs look all wrong to me became apparent when I weighed myself the other day. I was hoping to gain half a stone. I've actually managed to lose half a stone. No wodner they look all deflated! Razz

zoetrope · Joined: 23 May 2009 Posts: 71 Location: Bradford/Hartlepool

I'm constanly worried my boobs are saggy. And I'm only 21!
If they weren't already massive I'd seriously consider a boob job/lift type thing