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Hmmmmm, Rockstar Men?

 
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Lily Belle



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 2:04 pm    Post subject: Hmmmmm, Rockstar Men? Reply with quote

Ok, I have recently met and started casually dating this guy who has just gotten signed to a big record label. I like him a lot, and because he is a friend of a friend, I already know the things that would otherwise take months to figure out. However, What with me being stuck in Bristol most of the time (apart from gigs) And him about to do the rock-tour thing, should I even bother keeping him around? I

mean he really is a little full of himself, but thats ok, because so am I. But I don't want him to think that its ok for him to hook up with tons of groupies whilst dating me. I am a preciuos commodity after all! I don't care if he has the occaisional hook up whilst on tour, I have no doubt i'll find someone else to scratch my itch while he is away, But the question is, how do I make absolutely sure he dosn't do it to me when he is NOT touring, when he is just around me? hmmmmmmm.

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Miss Kitty Lou



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 3:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Have you tried talking to him about this?
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 4:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It depends what kind of relationship you want, you really can't have it both ways. If its ok for you both to hook up with other people all the time then there will be no boundaries to your fidelity.
If you're ok with this then go for it, it doesn't really sound like you know what you want....work that out and then see if he agrees to your terms!
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 3:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

alot of guys just like the flirting, same as most people. but if they know you want to be exclusive would hopefully be respectful and go no further.

im lucky, chris only gets big fat male bikers as groupies. fnarr.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 3:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's because he plays real fuckin' music and not this boy-band-with-guitars crap that all the kids with bad haircuts listen to.
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Lily Belle



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 6:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Its ok, I fixed this problem
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 10:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Got rid of him, eh? Very Happy jk

Glad it's all resolved
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 11:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hehe  Wink yes its all beard stroky music from here on in.

and hope he is good to you hunny!

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 11:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Miss Baby Bones wrote:
and hope he is good to you hunny!


I'm pretty sure that was directed at you, Lilly. I don't need a man to be good to me. haha



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